#not to traumadump or whatever but my blog my rules
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risingsunresistance · 2 years ago
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i dont want to sound mean here – this is meant as genuine advice because you seem like youre really going through it – have you considered seeing a counsellor/therapist about your grief? if its manifesting as rage thats not good, man, i know this is a lot to go through but its okay to ask for help if you feel brave enough so you dont hurt yourself (or someone you care about) more
yeah i probably just need to go back to therapy, i quit last semester bc stuff got to overwhelming (probably a sign i should have stayed but felt like a bad idea at the time)
im not at risk of hurting myself unless you count emotional damage so dont worry abt that i promise it's not that bad 👍
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ohnoitsz1m · 6 months ago
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Intro & About | Askbox is… OPEN!!!
Admin : Z1m | He/It
I’m a freelance artist and I play games, make videos, and do a bit of taxidermy in my spare time on top of my regular art. I can talk your ear off about the history of the goth subculture and furries :]
Feel free to dm I'm not terribly chatty but I don't bite ^^ if Gmods ur thing I'm always looking for people to play with
Active Interests :
Half-Life + Entropy Zero
HLVRAI / RTVS
Garry’s Mod
Blog Info :
This is a sideblog for valve and rtvs stuff mostly, my main is 18+ so I’ll mainly be interacting via asks n reblogs because of how tumblr works sorry.
I’m totally fine with making friends and casual chat abt shared interests! Don’t take it personally if we don’t vibe I am just very awkward and struggle to talk sometimes.
General Warnings & BYF :
I post gore and sensitive subjects without a buffer, I try to tag appropriately but sometimes I fuck up, if you need something tagged lmk.
I am not your dad, you are responsible for what kind of content you engage with and how you engage with it. Im literally just posting gay Half-Life.
No DNI, I block if you’re mean. I don’t tolerate shipcourse, I’m not a proshipper or an antishipper but a secret third thing (a grass toucher who understands nuance).
I am generally wary of the hlvrai fandom- I may reblog and draw hlvrai stuff but in general y'all scare me. Not even in a silly way I've just had a really shit experience with the fandom sorry.
Askbox & Art :
Askbox : OPEN (never closes)
You can send whatever in there :3 fandom related asks, headcanons, theories, art requests (see request rules), rants, discussions, ect. Please don’t like.. traumadump or whatever. And please keep it generally sfw.
Art Requests : OPEN - Click Here for Rules
Art Trades : Ask!
Art Commissions : CLOSED
Art Tag : #No Reposting
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ruiination · 1 year ago
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RULES
topaz. he/they. 25+ blogs: warrior of light. / personal / makoto yuki
Meta Rules:
I am a person and am bipolar. I have episodes of intense depression and also moments of extreme anxiety/paranoia. During these extremes, I will shut myself out from others. This is because I know I can be harmful when it comes to my thinking. I can be incredibly negative and accidentally vent or overshare. I can become irrationally fearful or obnoxious. I am in treatment for these things, and the biggest thing I know is that I can be harmful and be easily harmed. I have had a variety of experiences where I have accidentally crossed lines or slipped into toxic bullshit. I have been manipulated and hurt during these episodes. The best thing for me in these situations is to give me space. I need to protect myself during these times. I need to be alone. I am reluctant to be open because of past experiences. I know I cannot act rationally and can make stupid choices. I can become snippy or traumadump. I can allow people to walk on my boundaries during these periods. I have been manipulated multiple times to do and share things I am not comfortable with. On that subject, I am always open to talking or hearing people out. But if I am having an episode of depression, I will not be capable of listening to people vent. When I am manic, I get incredibly anxious or hyper. The anxiety can turn into downright paranoia which is why I cannot handle vagueblogging and stuff during those times. I am not making excuses. I am just letting everyone know that I sometimes need space. I need patience. I may still write. But I will not be able to speak much ooc. It is not personal. But sometimes I just struggle. It is a struggle a lot of the time. I wanted to add this into my rules even if it makes me so nervous to do it.
I try my best to tag triggers, so if you need something tagged let me know.
Sexism and racism will not be tolerated, you will be blocked. If you post anything transphobic, homophobic, or biphobic, I will block YOU
If you ship adult/minor ships or condone that stuff, do not interact.
I can and will block if people make me uncomfortable.
I will never write incest.
If you are here because of Jay or whatever, here is my post about his little stunt and the photo of my original DNI (which i posted as a screenshot from my Clive blog so it wouldn't so up on searches) is on the bottom of the page. ♥ I am thankful for all of the support, but I do not want to talk about him. If you have found one of his blogs, you can feel free to let me know.
In terms of triggers, I try my best to keep up. But it's not easy for me to tag not standard ones. If you are triggered by dogs, violence, mental illness, and childhood trauma this may not be the blog for you.
If you constantly delete/move your blogs, I might be hesitant to interact with you.
I am white irl and I do write a few poc. If you see me so anything wrong and you are a poc, feel free to educate me. I'm always trying to learn and be better. I have a zero tolerance policy about racism. I will not speak over poc. If they tell me something is a microagression or downright racist, I'm only going to listen. I can't possibly know their lived experience and trust their perspective. Please reach out if you see anything from me I need to correct!
I'm queer. I am genderfluid with a masc lean. Assigned female at birth. I have a zero tolerance policy about about hate toward lgbt+ people and misogyny. I will say something to you if it seems unintentionally done. But yeah.
I am incredibly uncomfortable around much of the following fandoms: final fantasy xvi , danganronpa, and baldur's gate 3. Still willing to follow or interact but I may be hesitant.
Interaction Rules:
Asks can ALWAYS be replied to.
All muses are crossover friendly and OC friendly.
Do not force me to ship or smut.
I'm mutuals only.
If you are a multi muse and send an ask or like a starter call without specifying what muse you are sending from, I won't answer. If you don't specify a muse you want from me when you send asks, I won't answer.
I don't use icons for certain muses. I do not have time to make icons for 60+ muses.
I have 4 different muse sections which are to indicate activity. Primary muses are the most active and accepting. where each section below it becomes less active or accepting. I also added a feature muse to indicate the character I have the most muse for right now which will be the MOST active.
I will no longer be writing smut rps. It doesn't make me comfortable for a variety of reasons. I may do some on discord and I am happy to talk about those sorts of headcanons, but I have discovered that I have hang-ups with writing things like that that I have not been able to push past. I will enact a fade to black policy for now. I am truly sorry. I have only had a handful of partners I have written this type of content with and all but one have resulted in the same outcome that is just a personal failing of mine. I will continue to try to work through this. But for now, please try to be understanding. If you want more of an explanation, feel free to ask in dms/ims.
Shipping/Mains Rules
If you are a main or ship partner, I need to be able to kinda talk to you ooc. I only will be mains with someone that speaks with me ooc.
If you MAINLY want to smut/ship and that's the only reason you are here, this blog isn't for you.
Mains get priority.
If you become mains or start shipping with be and then never reply or talk to me, I'll remove you from my list. Shipping or being mains should be the start and not the end. That status is not a trophy to be put on your shelf. Exceptions can obviously be made and I'm always okay with low activity or extended breaks. I just ask for communication when possible.
I will typically not be exclusive.
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Credits
Icon Templates: cassiaslair, somresources, calisources, paletterph, thunderousmemes, stephysource, biscuit, supersources
Coloring psds: abstraect, somresources, tattooedtaemin, calisources, freerps, biscuit.
Caps: capsource
dividers: here, and paletterph
Mains
@nivaera.
@cagedfirebird
@unrealization
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last-c2usade · 2 years ago
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ABOUT
Mun's name is Mal! 22. Pronouns are he/him. only. Copying my bestie's profile to a T btw so if you recognize this yeah. you recognize it.
FIRST! 18+ ONLY PLEASE AND THANK YOU
so some facts!
i'm in psychology and i have an issue where i really enjoy writing my characters super realistically and i'll be a nuisance about their psychology and reasoning for why they do what they do
i love shitty fictional people. i mean it. the shittier the better. be wary of this. when i mean shitty i mean SHITTY terrible awful people
im EXTREMELY good at forgetting to keep up with shit. i dont even read webcomics anymore coz if shit takes too long to update i lose interest. if this blog dies its coz i forgor
i try to be friendly and nice! you can talk to me about movies and writing and psychology. i'll try not to infodump on you but um. if allowed i WILL
please for the love of god, i appreciate you, i empathize, etc, but do not traumadump on me without asking. i will feel too bad to say stop/no bc i dont know you well enough to tell you know and i WILL ghost you
Main guy here is S. Adamantine! He prefers you call him that. Alien, ex-member of the court. Has a huge ego he's trying to work on. Extremely patient, clingy, a little neurotic (I say this as lovingly as possible. it's true tho. he's like me. we're both fucked in the head). Loves books! Loves bikes and mechanics (don't mention it's a lowblood thing or he'll Have you), kinda' shy! Awkward as fuck.
pronouns are HE/HIM only
>types like this! usually with p2ope2 g2amma2. likes to think his qui2k is a sign of cultu2ed thinking<
Rules and Things to keep in mind!
tags are! #((ooc for ooc stuff, #>pix< for ic pictures, #logs. for written stuff, and #>dia2y< for any talk posts mars makes ic
i tag for tws/anything general i might find sus but thats about it other than the above!
if you wanna' talk about anything, message me on @theymakemedreamyourdreams ! you can also ask for my discord
open for shipping! though he's a little iffy on romance. ping me n we can discuss!
open for anyone! you MUST BE 18+ tho
can also dm this account for ic dms!
dont think i wanna' do m!as! but feel free to ask and i'll see!
gifts are ok! welcome even
nsfw comments allowed!!
both ocs and canon for any fandom is okay! keep in mind, he's troll and WILL be mean towards aliens
keep ooc and ic SEPARATE! i dont condone any of the sus shit my guys may be up to btw! ada is a little more well-behaved, but his opinions do not reflect mine.
open for plot! i like plotting. i also like rps. i may forget about them. or lose interest. but schemes are always welcome! (i may be picky)
ada is kinky as shit. he can get REALLY nsfw if you let him. fair warning
i LOVE dark plots and dark shit. and realistically terrible people. i love serial killers and nsfw shit and guns and fictional gun violence a lot of dark stuff. and angst. just fair warning!
lemme know if you want certain things tagged!
feel free to remind me about open threads / plots / etc! i am prone to ghosting if i lose interest tho
feel free to lemme know if im doing something unintentionally incorrect btw! i may be unaware of shit
i block deliberately. if something makes me uncomfortable and i feel left out of shit or whatever, i'll block to keep myself contained! i dont want anything to do with drama!!
i like to say swear words like fuck shit cunt piss bitch. adamantine does too
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askvibri · 2 years ago
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intro + important information
okay this won't be extremely story driven, but it does have a very basic plot. This may change in the future. I'm not really thinking about this too much, I just want haha rabbit ask blog. Basically, Vibri's consciousness was transferred from the original Vib-Ribbon disc into a computer. Vibri's naturally quite lonely from nobody playing her game for such a long time, but nonetheless she's cheerful and happy to make new friends! Onto the rules!
Rule 1. NSFW asks are fine, but I'm not gonna draw any for you. Sorry, I'm not gonna draw sexy hentai of your vector rabbit waifu or whatever. Rule 2. Don't traumadump. It's okay to say your having a bad day, but don't send me your whole life story. I have my own problems, I can't give you the help you need.
thats literally IT! I'll add more rules as I go on.
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anantaru · 2 years ago
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TW VENTING ETC / TRAUMA DUMPING IN MY ASKS:
Hi everyone, so to the person who sent me the venting post (re. trauma dumping); first of all i‘m sorry for what you‘ve been through and i‘m happy though you do not like all my content, some of it you liked and may have helped you! (I‘m not going to answer your ask because it‘s heavily triggering)
Though please, i dont want to sound insensitive whatsoever, like that would be the last thing i would want to be or want to be come across as. But please before you send me asks/interact with me, READ MY RULES, PLEASE, - AND THATS SOMETHING YOU SHOULD DO WITH EVERY WRITER BEFORE INTERACTING,
so in my rules one of them is "do not trauma dump in my asks" i did this because although i do want to be open to all your questions and asks because i‘m very comfy in my skin and an overly open person, very heavy triggering stuff such as (p3dophilia etc) can not only be triggering to some of you but do remember that i‘m also just a person, you don‘t know what triggers me, you don‘t know me, you don‘t know what i‘ve been through or what‘s going on in my life.
I try to be friendly with everyone and have a good time because that‘s what i want this blog to be, build a safespace for nsfw content and just thirsting for 2d characters without feeling disgusted or whatever, since we all share the love for anime/games etc.
With that being said i will not be answering your asks for like a day or two, today it happened like 6 times that people either requested stuff although the requests being closed, requesting dark content or content i do not write (i dont have anything against dark content but i do not write it myself) or trauma dump and make me uncomfortable/trigger me.
Yeah that‘s all i have to say, to the person who traumadumped to me, i hope you‘ll be able to heal even though that‘s pretty lackluster and cliche to say i know, but i do mean it with all of my heart. I‘m gonna log off for the day now, thank you if you made it this far, i think i have a post coming up soon, its in my queue but i need to check. Yeah that‘s all :) thank you for reading ily all and i‘ll be reblogging the rules and dni/byi for people who didnt read it yet and hope you‘ll understand and respect me.
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humiliatedwriter · 3 years ago
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Request rules an my general writing scheme
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Howdy! I figured I’d toss this up real quick since requests are picking up and I’d hate to have to reject any of you lovelies!
so my writings are a little bit different to what’s usually seen on here/just in general among fic writing communities so I’d appreciate if you read through this real quick! * * *
so I am a guy and I’ve noticed that 90% of fanfictions are geared specifically towards a female reader and there’s very few writers who are consistently inclusive to other genders, so unless the reader’s gender is important to the plot, all of my writings will be completely gender neutral.
so my rules are;
*absolutely no nsfw (not only am i a minor, but for the most part i write for real people and i respect their boundaries)
*graphic scenes of abuse, rape, assault or drawn out violence are a huge no
*I will not write the use/glorification of hard drugs. Stuff like weed and alcohol are fine but drug use/addiction are very sensitive topics for personal reasons
*please no traumadumping! I’m happy to write comfort for whatever you’re going through but I’d prefer that you only give me a brief rundown
*no requests involving pregnancy/parenthood please! I have severe tokophobia and those topics are deeply distressing to me
*no boundary breaking requests, in extension to this, i keep up with the mcyt boundaries blog but i am still human and im sure its possible for me to miss updates or forget things, so if i write anything boundary breaking please let me know!
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